diff --git a/fs/btrfs/send.c b/fs/btrfs/send.c
index ec14c97ce2ee..a42282492423 100644
--- a/fs/btrfs/send.c
+++ b/fs/btrfs/send.c
@@ -1884,7 +1884,8 @@ enum inode_state {
 	inode_state_did_delete,
 };
 
-static int get_cur_inode_state(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen)
+static int get_cur_inode_state(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen,
+			       u64 *send_gen, u64 *parent_gen)
 {
 	int ret;
 	int left_ret;
@@ -1898,6 +1899,8 @@ static int get_cur_inode_state(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen)
 		goto out;
 	left_ret = (info.nlink == 0) ? -ENOENT : ret;
 	left_gen = info.gen;
+	if (send_gen)
+		*send_gen = ((left_ret == -ENOENT) ? 0 : info.gen);
 
 	if (!sctx->parent_root) {
 		right_ret = -ENOENT;
@@ -1907,6 +1910,8 @@ static int get_cur_inode_state(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen)
 			goto out;
 		right_ret = (info.nlink == 0) ? -ENOENT : ret;
 		right_gen = info.gen;
+		if (parent_gen)
+			*parent_gen = ((right_ret == -ENOENT) ? 0 : info.gen);
 	}
 
 	if (!left_ret && !right_ret) {
@@ -1951,14 +1956,15 @@ static int get_cur_inode_state(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen)
 	return ret;
 }
 
-static int is_inode_existent(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen)
+static int is_inode_existent(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 ino, u64 gen,
+			     u64 *send_gen, u64 *parent_gen)
 {
 	int ret;
 
 	if (ino == BTRFS_FIRST_FREE_OBJECTID)
 		return 1;
 
-	ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, ino, gen);
+	ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, ino, gen, send_gen, parent_gen);
 	if (ret < 0)
 		goto out;
 
@@ -2120,14 +2126,14 @@ static int will_overwrite_ref(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 dir, u64 dir_gen,
 			      u64 *who_ino, u64 *who_gen, u64 *who_mode)
 {
 	int ret;
-	u64 gen;
+	u64 parent_root_dir_gen;
 	u64 other_inode = 0;
 	struct btrfs_inode_info info;
 
 	if (!sctx->parent_root)
 		return 0;
 
-	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, dir, dir_gen);
+	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, dir, dir_gen, NULL, &parent_root_dir_gen);
 	if (ret <= 0)
 		return 0;
 
@@ -2135,17 +2141,13 @@ static int will_overwrite_ref(struct send_ctx *sctx, u64 dir, u64 dir_gen,
 	 * If we have a parent root we need to verify that the parent dir was
 	 * not deleted and then re-created, if it was then we have no overwrite
 	 * and we can just unlink this entry.
+	 *
+	 * @parent_root_dir_gen was set to 0 if the inode does not exist in the
+	 * parent root.
 	 */
-	if (sctx->parent_root && dir != BTRFS_FIRST_FREE_OBJECTID) {
-		ret = get_inode_gen(sctx->parent_root, dir, &gen);
-		if (ret == -ENOENT)
-			return 0;
-		else if (ret < 0)
-			return ret;
-
-		if (gen != dir_gen)
-			return 0;
-	}
+	if (sctx->parent_root && dir != BTRFS_FIRST_FREE_OBJECTID &&
+	    parent_root_dir_gen != dir_gen)
+		return 0;
 
 	ret = lookup_dir_item_inode(sctx->parent_root, dir, name, name_len,
 				    &other_inode);
@@ -2189,26 +2191,21 @@ static int did_overwrite_ref(struct send_ctx *sctx,
 	int ret;
 	u64 ow_inode;
 	u64 ow_gen = 0;
+	u64 send_root_dir_gen;
 
 	if (!sctx->parent_root)
 		return 0;
 
-	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, dir, dir_gen);
+	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, dir, dir_gen, &send_root_dir_gen, NULL);
 	if (ret <= 0)
 		return ret;
 
-	if (dir != BTRFS_FIRST_FREE_OBJECTID) {
-		u64 gen;
-
-		ret = get_inode_gen(sctx->send_root, dir, &gen);
-		if (ret == -ENOENT)
-			return 0;
-		else if (ret < 0)
-			return ret;
-
-		if (gen != dir_gen)
-			return 0;
-	}
+	/*
+	 * @send_root_dir_gen was set to 0 if the inode does not exist in the
+	 * send root.
+	 */
+	if (dir != BTRFS_FIRST_FREE_OBJECTID && send_root_dir_gen != dir_gen)
+		return 0;
 
 	/* check if the ref was overwritten by another ref */
 	ret = lookup_dir_item_inode(sctx->send_root, dir, name, name_len,
@@ -2444,7 +2441,7 @@ static int __get_cur_name_and_parent(struct send_ctx *sctx,
 	 * This should only happen for the parent dir that we determine in
 	 * record_new_ref_if_needed().
 	 */
-	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, ino, gen);
+	ret = is_inode_existent(sctx, ino, gen, NULL, NULL);
 	if (ret < 0)
 		goto out;
 
@@ -4240,7 +4237,7 @@ static int process_recorded_refs(struct send_ctx *sctx, int *pending_move)
 	 * "testdir_2".
 	 */
 	list_for_each_entry(cur, &sctx->new_refs, list) {
-		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen);
+		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen, NULL, NULL);
 		if (ret < 0)
 			goto out;
 		if (ret == inode_state_will_create)
@@ -4356,7 +4353,7 @@ static int process_recorded_refs(struct send_ctx *sctx, int *pending_move)
 		 * parent directory out of order. But we need to check if this
 		 * did already happen before due to other refs in the same dir.
 		 */
-		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen);
+		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen, NULL, NULL);
 		if (ret < 0)
 			goto out;
 		if (ret == inode_state_will_create) {
@@ -4562,7 +4559,7 @@ static int process_recorded_refs(struct send_ctx *sctx, int *pending_move)
 		if (cur->dir > sctx->cur_ino)
 			continue;
 
-		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen);
+		ret = get_cur_inode_state(sctx, cur->dir, cur->dir_gen, NULL, NULL);
 		if (ret < 0)
 			goto out;