diff --git a/kernel/bpf/sockmap.c b/kernel/bpf/sockmap.c
index 488ef9663c01..0a0f2ec75370 100644
--- a/kernel/bpf/sockmap.c
+++ b/kernel/bpf/sockmap.c
@@ -132,6 +132,7 @@ struct smap_psock {
 	struct work_struct gc_work;
 
 	struct proto *sk_proto;
+	void (*save_unhash)(struct sock *sk);
 	void (*save_close)(struct sock *sk, long timeout);
 	void (*save_data_ready)(struct sock *sk);
 	void (*save_write_space)(struct sock *sk);
@@ -143,6 +144,7 @@ static int bpf_tcp_recvmsg(struct sock *sk, struct msghdr *msg, size_t len,
 static int bpf_tcp_sendmsg(struct sock *sk, struct msghdr *msg, size_t size);
 static int bpf_tcp_sendpage(struct sock *sk, struct page *page,
 			    int offset, size_t size, int flags);
+static void bpf_tcp_unhash(struct sock *sk);
 static void bpf_tcp_close(struct sock *sk, long timeout);
 
 static inline struct smap_psock *smap_psock_sk(const struct sock *sk)
@@ -184,6 +186,7 @@ static void build_protos(struct proto prot[SOCKMAP_NUM_CONFIGS],
 			 struct proto *base)
 {
 	prot[SOCKMAP_BASE]			= *base;
+	prot[SOCKMAP_BASE].unhash		= bpf_tcp_unhash;
 	prot[SOCKMAP_BASE].close		= bpf_tcp_close;
 	prot[SOCKMAP_BASE].recvmsg		= bpf_tcp_recvmsg;
 	prot[SOCKMAP_BASE].stream_memory_read	= bpf_tcp_stream_read;
@@ -217,6 +220,7 @@ static int bpf_tcp_init(struct sock *sk)
 		return -EBUSY;
 	}
 
+	psock->save_unhash = sk->sk_prot->unhash;
 	psock->save_close = sk->sk_prot->close;
 	psock->sk_proto = sk->sk_prot;
 
@@ -305,30 +309,12 @@ static struct smap_psock_map_entry *psock_map_pop(struct sock *sk,
 	return e;
 }
 
-static void bpf_tcp_close(struct sock *sk, long timeout)
+static void bpf_tcp_remove(struct sock *sk, struct smap_psock *psock)
 {
-	void (*close_fun)(struct sock *sk, long timeout);
 	struct smap_psock_map_entry *e;
 	struct sk_msg_buff *md, *mtmp;
-	struct smap_psock *psock;
 	struct sock *osk;
 
-	lock_sock(sk);
-	rcu_read_lock();
-	psock = smap_psock_sk(sk);
-	if (unlikely(!psock)) {
-		rcu_read_unlock();
-		release_sock(sk);
-		return sk->sk_prot->close(sk, timeout);
-	}
-
-	/* The psock may be destroyed anytime after exiting the RCU critial
-	 * section so by the time we use close_fun the psock may no longer
-	 * be valid. However, bpf_tcp_close is called with the sock lock
-	 * held so the close hook and sk are still valid.
-	 */
-	close_fun = psock->save_close;
-
 	if (psock->cork) {
 		free_start_sg(psock->sock, psock->cork, true);
 		kfree(psock->cork);
@@ -379,6 +365,42 @@ static void bpf_tcp_close(struct sock *sk, long timeout)
 		kfree(e);
 		e = psock_map_pop(sk, psock);
 	}
+}
+
+static void bpf_tcp_unhash(struct sock *sk)
+{
+	void (*unhash_fun)(struct sock *sk);
+	struct smap_psock *psock;
+
+	rcu_read_lock();
+	psock = smap_psock_sk(sk);
+	if (unlikely(!psock)) {
+		rcu_read_unlock();
+		if (sk->sk_prot->unhash)
+			sk->sk_prot->unhash(sk);
+		return;
+	}
+	unhash_fun = psock->save_unhash;
+	bpf_tcp_remove(sk, psock);
+	rcu_read_unlock();
+	unhash_fun(sk);
+}
+
+static void bpf_tcp_close(struct sock *sk, long timeout)
+{
+	void (*close_fun)(struct sock *sk, long timeout);
+	struct smap_psock *psock;
+
+	lock_sock(sk);
+	rcu_read_lock();
+	psock = smap_psock_sk(sk);
+	if (unlikely(!psock)) {
+		rcu_read_unlock();
+		release_sock(sk);
+		return sk->sk_prot->close(sk, timeout);
+	}
+	close_fun = psock->save_close;
+	bpf_tcp_remove(sk, psock);
 	rcu_read_unlock();
 	release_sock(sk);
 	close_fun(sk, timeout);
@@ -2097,8 +2119,12 @@ static int sock_map_update_elem(struct bpf_map *map,
 		return -EINVAL;
 	}
 
+	/* ULPs are currently supported only for TCP sockets in ESTABLISHED
+	 * state.
+	 */
 	if (skops.sk->sk_type != SOCK_STREAM ||
-	    skops.sk->sk_protocol != IPPROTO_TCP) {
+	    skops.sk->sk_protocol != IPPROTO_TCP ||
+	    skops.sk->sk_state != TCP_ESTABLISHED) {
 		fput(socket->file);
 		return -EOPNOTSUPP;
 	}
@@ -2453,6 +2479,16 @@ static int sock_hash_update_elem(struct bpf_map *map,
 		return -EINVAL;
 	}
 
+	/* ULPs are currently supported only for TCP sockets in ESTABLISHED
+	 * state.
+	 */
+	if (skops.sk->sk_type != SOCK_STREAM ||
+	    skops.sk->sk_protocol != IPPROTO_TCP ||
+	    skops.sk->sk_state != TCP_ESTABLISHED) {
+		fput(socket->file);
+		return -EOPNOTSUPP;
+	}
+
 	lock_sock(skops.sk);
 	preempt_disable();
 	rcu_read_lock();
@@ -2543,10 +2579,22 @@ const struct bpf_map_ops sock_hash_ops = {
 	.map_check_btf = map_check_no_btf,
 };
 
+static bool bpf_is_valid_sock_op(struct bpf_sock_ops_kern *ops)
+{
+	return ops->op == BPF_SOCK_OPS_PASSIVE_ESTABLISHED_CB ||
+	       ops->op == BPF_SOCK_OPS_ACTIVE_ESTABLISHED_CB;
+}
 BPF_CALL_4(bpf_sock_map_update, struct bpf_sock_ops_kern *, bpf_sock,
 	   struct bpf_map *, map, void *, key, u64, flags)
 {
 	WARN_ON_ONCE(!rcu_read_lock_held());
+
+	/* ULPs are currently supported only for TCP sockets in ESTABLISHED
+	 * state. This checks that the sock ops triggering the update is
+	 * one indicating we are (or will be soon) in an ESTABLISHED state.
+	 */
+	if (!bpf_is_valid_sock_op(bpf_sock))
+		return -EOPNOTSUPP;
 	return sock_map_ctx_update_elem(bpf_sock, map, key, flags);
 }
 
@@ -2565,6 +2613,9 @@ BPF_CALL_4(bpf_sock_hash_update, struct bpf_sock_ops_kern *, bpf_sock,
 	   struct bpf_map *, map, void *, key, u64, flags)
 {
 	WARN_ON_ONCE(!rcu_read_lock_held());
+
+	if (!bpf_is_valid_sock_op(bpf_sock))
+		return -EOPNOTSUPP;
 	return sock_hash_ctx_update_elem(bpf_sock, map, key, flags);
 }
 
diff --git a/tools/include/tools/libc_compat.h b/tools/include/tools/libc_compat.h
index 664ced8cb1b0..e907ba6f15e5 100644
--- a/tools/include/tools/libc_compat.h
+++ b/tools/include/tools/libc_compat.h
@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-// SPDX-License-Identifier: GPL-2.0+
+// SPDX-License-Identifier: (LGPL-2.0+ OR BSD-2-Clause)
 /* Copyright (C) 2018 Netronome Systems, Inc. */
 
 #ifndef __TOOLS_LIBC_COMPAT_H
diff --git a/tools/testing/selftests/bpf/test_maps.c b/tools/testing/selftests/bpf/test_maps.c
index 6f54f84144a0..9b552c0fc47d 100644
--- a/tools/testing/selftests/bpf/test_maps.c
+++ b/tools/testing/selftests/bpf/test_maps.c
@@ -580,7 +580,11 @@ static void test_sockmap(int tasks, void *data)
 	/* Test update without programs */
 	for (i = 0; i < 6; i++) {
 		err = bpf_map_update_elem(fd, &i, &sfd[i], BPF_ANY);
-		if (err) {
+		if (i < 2 && !err) {
+			printf("Allowed update sockmap '%i:%i' not in ESTABLISHED\n",
+			       i, sfd[i]);
+			goto out_sockmap;
+		} else if (i >= 2 && err) {
 			printf("Failed noprog update sockmap '%i:%i'\n",
 			       i, sfd[i]);
 			goto out_sockmap;
@@ -741,7 +745,7 @@ static void test_sockmap(int tasks, void *data)
 	}
 
 	/* Test map update elem afterwards fd lives in fd and map_fd */
-	for (i = 0; i < 6; i++) {
+	for (i = 2; i < 6; i++) {
 		err = bpf_map_update_elem(map_fd_rx, &i, &sfd[i], BPF_ANY);
 		if (err) {
 			printf("Failed map_fd_rx update sockmap %i '%i:%i'\n",
@@ -845,7 +849,7 @@ static void test_sockmap(int tasks, void *data)
 	}
 
 	/* Delete the elems without programs */
-	for (i = 0; i < 6; i++) {
+	for (i = 2; i < 6; i++) {
 		err = bpf_map_delete_elem(fd, &i);
 		if (err) {
 			printf("Failed delete sockmap %i '%i:%i'\n",